When Is Enough, Enough?

My loved ones have always been my priority. The second they don't feel central to me, I know I've lost the plot. I am capable of being overwhelmed and sometimes biting the bullet on not performing at my best, but I'll be caught dead before someone I love has to ask me for more. Another one of my fatal flaws is that I just don't tolerate disrespect. It's great for me in the long run but it has set me up for a bit of trouble in the past. I don't know if I would change that about myself but maybe I would make adjustments to the way I handle it.